Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
God I hate these threads. They start as an inquiry, someone with actual questions and a desire for some input...

..and eventually we get to this vitriolic diatribe!!
But you see, Oz, that's her take on infidelity and what defines infidelity for her. That's valuable input for someone facing a situation where they're considering being unfaithful, because that "vitriol" may be exactly what that person's partner reacts with. And no amount of calm, reasoned arguments by us uninvolved folks will make a difference in that.

When the partner is reacting with that "vitriol", saying "but so-and-so on the website didn't think it would be cheating" is a less than effective argument.