damyanti - The part where men plead "primitive procreation urge" as an excuse for cheating. Frankly, as a man, don't you find that insulting...it suggests that only women have evolved from the "cave days"?

Slow down slow down. We may have a cross wire here. I stated that men may have a biological impulse to be more promiscuous than women. You may dispute that but there are many who hold that view. It seems like you may be twisting that comment to make it seem like I said it was a justifiable excuse.

Our caveman instict tells us to kill somebody who threatens us but out developed society tells us it's wrong. Most of us don't hit out when we are annoyed but many do because they are following their instincts. I find it strange that we are putting men on the moon but war (sic Iraq) still seems to be the prefered method of conflict resolution. Women have not developed any faster from the cave age than men. The primal insticts is for the welfare of the young still and for that they need the male to be around and not off with another female. Surely I am not saying anything revolutionary by suggesting that primeval instincts still play a part in how we behave. Why do american females spend trillions on make up compared to men. Is that not the natural instinct to attact the male at work.

Yes of course you are perfectly correct that it is not an accpetable excuse. There are many cases in life where we have to overide our animal instincts else I would be clubbing you on the head and dragging you back to my cave now.

If you are suggesting that I think it is an excuse because of my "it wasn't me it was the animal inside me" comment then hey look at the words "haha just joking" and take a guess whether I believed it's a justifiable excuse or not.

PS - Just spotted my "I stand by my defence. It's not my fault darling the problem is in my jeans." comment. No I didn't mean that. That was an attempt at humor not to be taken seriously. I do maintain that man has primitive urges but yes his brain should override his cock.