Quote Originally Posted by damyanti View Post

It does,...a little, . Seriously though, most of the time what helps the most is knowing you are not the only one.

Thank you,
D.
You're welcome. My pleasure.

And this brings up another good point actually. Slightly off topic, perhaps, but I think adds to the thread in general: not only should we be talking to our respective Doms about the "why?" factor to our limits but it never hurts to pick the brains of the other subs, either. It's amazing the "beed there, done that, here's what I learned" value in these relationships. A lot of times other subs can help us put to words what we may not know how to describe, thus helping EVERYONE in the D/s dynamic.