Okay this is my first post and now I'm just gonna throw it out there...

As I read this, my immediate thoughts are that it takes a strong person to accept being one hundred percent dependent on another human being in all aspects of life.

I am one of those people whose parents are part of the drastically increasing divorce statistics, and I live my life in fear of not belonging to somebody, of being alone, of having given it all, just to be left with a door slammed in my face one day...

So I am doing the whole struggle, trying to be an independent woman, striving to find happiness in just being myself...but the more I do that the more lonely and unhappy I feel! People are not meant to be alone...and to submit to another person and give them your body (including your heart), is a strong and daring choice.

Your post sets alot of thoughts going for me on the choice of fulfilling needs, and if what you feel the need to do/want to do is always what is best for you?, and what a truly submissive person, having build her life completely around her master, does the day he leaves her or dies before her?

I really appreciate all the serious topics being brought up today...it is really good to get some debate