Where have the good Doms gone?

[DIXIE LASS]

sadiej{KW}
i appreciate the open, honest and passionate discussion of this important topic. seeing other perspectives and being able to share and hear from others, is where the best wisdom can be found.

There are many different ways to look at it.

Sometimes appearences are decieving.

I would like to say this:

The girl that is in the middle of the room, sometimes the center of attention, who apears overly flirtasious or forward, who apears to be "working the crowd", may be preforming multiple purposes by design, more so than just trying to be a self serving slut in the pursuit of cybersex.

It is dificult not to brand that which we misunderstand becuase our perspective is of course limited by our own experiences.

SadieKW and Denuseri: Dittos, Dittos, Dittos


I don't feel like a mental moron when I state that BOTH Godfather and MacGuffin have valid arguments. The "right" choices in any given situation are going to depend on the strengths and frailties of the human individuals involved. The point is that this is a discussion about issues that need to be aired. The perceptive reader will see much of him/her self in the writings of both men. So what? I think most people are on this site because they are trying to learn and explore. The point/counterpoint method is a valid teaching tool and seems to be working well here.

While I'm aware that Godfather's first stated intention was to offer help and advice to subs, particularly new subs, these on-going threads have the added benefit of offering us insight into the workings of a Dominant's mind.

I for one appreciate the time and effort expended by both Godfather and MacGuffin. I am not a natural writer and know quite well how difficult it can be to write in a clear and concise manner that both covers the territory but also does not become so verbose as to put the reader to sleep. Both men have done an admirable job here as well as other threads. Let's just hope we can continue to have these threads that tackle the hopes, fears, and doubts of many of us. I'd be proud to thank all ya'll.

Dixie