Quote Originally Posted by Lady Hecate View Post
I have had men make disparaging comments about my body size/shape while I am naked in bed with them. There were at least a couple of guys who took one look at my naked body and said, "wow, you need more muscle tone."
And there was one particular ex who saw me naked, and just flat out told me that I am "huge." (Which I don't agree with, BTW, but whatever.)

Wow.. way 101 for a guy to get chucked out of the house stark naked. Or hog tied with his underwear and left on the lawn, but perhaps im in a mood today *wry smile*.

Please, Madam, if there were anything they honestly thought was so wrong with You, then they wouldnt have bothered to make the effort to get into Your bed. i hope You didnt take any bit of that BS to heart because even if whatever flaw were real (which i sincerely doubt) there would be no reason or exscuse to be so impolite as to say so like that. It sounds to me like a trick to damage your selfesteem by someone with his own sexual problems (and typical abuser stuff by the way). Anybody else who found some suprise detail too objectionable would just make some exscuse and leave... which means this stuff wasnt You. It was them and their own problems with themselves. It's not my place to say but i think You're well rid of them, even though im sure it hurt You anyways which im sorry for *sigh*.