Quote Originally Posted by Clevernick View Post
I too have a physical type, though it's a lot broader than either of yours. And women outside it don't really do much for me either.

But they also have to be smart, and cheerful, and bratty, and submissive.

None of this is all that hard. But when you narrow it down to those willing to be with a Poly, married man, the pickings get very slim indeed.
Not sure what your physical type is, but I made a little face when I read the rest of it....

As for the rest of it, sometimes I curse my submissive side because some of my buttons are so easy to push. For instance, I was dancing with a friend at a club a couple of weeks ago, and he started leading me just slightly roughly, pushing a little bit harder than he really had to. And then I did one of those little moves where you bend down into your knees a little bit, and he put his hand on my shoulder and pushed me down onto my knees, and I had one of those little snap moments where you feel totally powerless... and I was like oh fuck I really don't need the extra strain on my willpower right now.

Mostly, though, I curse other people's sexualities. Things would be easier for me if everyone were poly, bi and switch.