Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a fat person?

No

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a thin person?

No

What body type attracts you most?

I have never had a type. When I was in my teens... I liked a guy who was 5'10 and a 38 waist and I also liked a guy who was 6'3 and a size 29 waist. I am not bi, but if I find a woman attractive, often times its her face that I look at. Anybody size can be attractive to me.

How have your own body issues affected your love/sex life?
When I was a teen, I'd always want to be like my thinner friends. But they were always saying they wanted to be like me. I realized that no one is ever 100% happy. And there is not a perfect body size or shape. What looks great on one may look awful on another. I think ideally I find women who are a size 8 - 12 attractive (As to what size I would like to be) and men about a 34-36 waist. But I certainly do not have limits at to what I find attractive or not.

For me, people have always told me that I radiate confidence. I laugh loudly. I walk into a room with my head up. I try to never pre-judge and befriends with anyone. I have fat days.. ugly days.. crappy days.. like everyone. But, I know over all, I am really pretty to some people. Other perhaps not, but to each their own, I am not attracted to every person.

I love being naked in my own home and am completley comfortable around my husband being so. He loves me, although he is not a BBW lover or chuBby chaser, but he fell in love with me. He said for him it all stops at the face. Thats what really attracts him in a womans face, so even if her body is amazing, if her face is not, its all over.


I do want to lose weight, but for my own health. I don't care about fitting into anyone elses mold of what they think I should be.

And I do agree, that slamming slender people is not appropriate. My best friend is 5'7 and a size 1 and she eats non stop and cannot put on weight. She cries because she wants to put on weight and cannot and used to beg to have an arse like mine ( while I begged to have a waist like hers) .. Just like being called fat can be hurtful, so can being called skinny or boyish. In my opinion, it really does have to do with whats on the inside. I can find something attractive in nearly any person I meet..