1.) Do all dom(me)/sub relationships have humiliation and demeining name calling or is it possible to have this type of relationship without that. No humiliation and name calling are not nessesary alltough some submissives desire it not all enjoy or need it etc

2.) How far do you have to go I understand that there are hard limits and soft limits but If your not comfortable with thing you may have seen or found does that mean this is not for you or can you stay in the kiddy pool so to speak?ther isnt anything at all wrong with the kiddie pool lol, in fact i would advise yu to take it slow and fully savor every moment and or new level to your submission as you go sis

3.) Is there a way to find a teacher in stead of a dom(me)/ subof course there is sis, i have even joked about having a school here for wayward subbies giggles, infact by posting your questions in a way you will find several teachers, some girls prefer to learn directly from a dom or domme and others like to apprentice themselves to a paticular submissive where as others learns by observation and querry, there is no rule that says you must submit to the attentions of a dominant to learn boo

ps, alltough i addressed you as a fellow submissive i know you are new and havent nessesarally picked a role for youself, nor do you have too, its perfectly ok to explore this world without a diffenitive title, people that switch roles are quite common and natural, my owner even says that we are all "switches" in a way