I never said it never happened, just that I never had to deal with it. The numbers of arseholes on some other chats are far higher than here (far higher than even a dedicated Mod could deal with) and often they don't have dedicated mods just self motivated members who police the boards themselves.

So, yes, a good Mod makes a massive difference but so does the fact that this place takes a little more effort to find than, for example, alt.com which offers special offers for people on their other sites to join more than one of them. This often means that you get swingers popping in from other sites because they think 'BDSM women are easy' and these are the ones who cause the trouble.