WHy is IT?

[snowflake]

Most of the serious BDSM chatrooms I have been in have been full of similar people - wanting to chat, so******e, make a joke or two, have a laugh and often rarely actually speak of BDSM. The one in this site is unique, however, in that I have rarely (in fact, never so far) had to 'advise' a male chatter that it is not a good idea to barge into the place and demand that woman serves him or approach one of the Dommes and basically try to bully her into being his 'Mistress'. I suspect this is because this site has a higher percentage of lifestylers in it and few 'non lifestyle tourists' in it.

dj i have to disagree a bit on the having males come in and try to bully woman to being a Mistress to them.. or a sub for that matter ..

It has happened .. the difference here is the Mods and Admin listen and deal with such issues immediately if it carries on or if others get rude or indignant..

We are so blessed with them .. i applaud the Mods and Admin on this board for making sure they are around and available in some way shape or form.. that is why i come here .. I feel very safe , sound and at home.. knowing that if i have a problem it won't go in one ear and out the other .. but will be dealt with in a civilized manner

just my opinion

hugs
snow