WHy is IT?

[Flaming_Redhead]

Ever notice, that as you chat online and in the chat rooms involved or made for BDSM or D/s that many submissives are in the rooms chatting about what they expect in a DOminant, or what type of DOminant they look for, or the fetishes and toys involved and chatting like they want a DOminant, but as soon as a DOminant approaches them online they come up with some excuse not to meet?

I haven't noticed that, but I've noticed that many supposed dominants suddenly disappear.

But in fact if a married person is looking in and of itself, the marriage can not be on firm ground can it?

I suppose that's something the married couple in question needs to discuss without the "help" of an interloper with an agenda.

It is amazing how much of an introvert a submissive can be and how really scared thay can be until they find a DOminant they fully trust, respect and then they can let go. Interesting huh? Why is it?

I think you just answered your own question.