Quote Originally Posted by AdrianaAurora View Post
Well we have sex about five days a week, sometimes more. And I want it as much as Him, it certainly never felt like a sacrifice. My friends always bitch about how boring their sex is, how they don't feel like it and orgasms are rare, I always orgasm and have no qualms about initiating sex myself, so while that makes me feel lucky it also made me wonder if there is something abnormal about me, lol. Then again normal is way overrated, lol.
I think this is a telling point... you always orgasm and so enjoy sex, your friends rarely do and so don't. I think it indicates more that there is something wrong in the way your friends are having sex. A lot of women's lack of enjoyment comes from lack of lubrication before penetration i.e. more foreplay is needed. The rest seems to come from non completion of orgasm because men are, at base, selfish bastards. If more women had good sex then more would want it I feel... clearly you, me and Tom are lucky in that regard as are (I suspect) many people on this site.

I was always taught that sex during menstruation is dirty, unsanitary and that men are repulsed by that, so with all my other boyfriends it was a definite no no. My husband changed that, it doesn't bother him and it even turns him on. It doesn't even stop him from going down on me. My period is no longer a barrier for having sex, but it depends from month to month. Usually my libido goes slightly up and some months I am horny like a little rabbit, but every now and then its so painful that I have no desire at all.
I had a theory that some women got really horny because of the fact they felt they could not have sex and so wanted it more. Though I suspect hjormones are involved (as per usual) to a large extent.

I think a lot of people (not just women) see the period as 'dirty' which is a shame. In my experience, it has rarely been a barrier other than the thought that it requires more cleaning up afterwards

p.s. I think Tom's wife would agree that his ego/brain is part of his charm. And it would be boring to discuss things only with people who agree with us and don't challenge our thoughts.
Of course Tom's ego is a good thing. I would not say otherwise. I was (jokingly) referring to his claims of sexual prowess not for any disagreement with me. And yes, disagreement is a good thing as it keeps us all honest in debate.

Speaking of which: I understand what you mean by your definition of sex. If that is your definition of sex (and I was defining it as both of you orgasm to total satisfaction following penetration and that can sometimes take hours) then indeed I can do it as many times as needed