I think we may all have to breath in extra hard so we can fit Tom's ego in here with us Seriously, I do know what you mean. I may not have sex every day (my stamina is nothing on yours, clearly) but there has rarely been a time when I did not have it available if I wanted it - and that usually due to medical reasons.

Yes, the idea that women can give or take sex from the man at a whim is a strange one for me. Ok, its a common theme of the Femdom lifestyle, when it is part of the fun and usually the Domme is getting her fix somehow (either another man/woman or simply forcing the sub to give her oral whenever she feels like it) but in a normal vanilla relationship? As stated, if it is done right, it should be fun for all involved and therefore not a gift to be given but a gift to be mutually enjoyed.

Maybe most of us on here are from a strange and freaky cult of perverted people who enjoy sex?
Oh, hang on, I just realised... we ARE all members of a strange and freaky cult of perverts who enjoy sex... and whips... and clamps... and cross dressing... and... Hmmmm, you know, maybe we aren't a reasonable demographic of the average population?

As an aside on this... possibly a personal question for some of the ladies so don't feel that you have to answer... How many of the women here feel that they cannot have sex during that 'special time of the month'? How many feel so incredibly horny that you *have* to have it at all costs? And how many of the men out there find their penises faint at the sight of blood? Just curious to get a quick poll as I have heard tales of all the above.