Originally posted by Krougar:
I might be over thinking this a little as well
Krougar, you are. Go out and have some fun. As you get to know a girl it becomes easier to ask. And if you take some time you won't get a reputation as that "pervert who only wanted to tie me up." Remember, take it slow. You have time. If you try to rush you risk appearing desperate. That is a turn-off in any style relationship.

Originally posted by ShyGreenEyedGrl:
I topped from the bottom, at first. *blushes*
You don't have to be embarrassed. Remember you are half the relationship even (or maybe I should say especially) if you are a sub or a slave. You have a responsibility to yourself and your partner to participate fully in the couple dynamic. Unless of course you only date mind-readers. You did the right thing, allowing him to get to know you better.

(Or if you said something while topping from the bottom that is the real source of your embarrassment...then it's really none of my business. )