I guess if I was perfect I'd figure out how to use the multi-quote, or at least how to turn the darn thing off!

I don't have to be right, I don't have to be best, I don't have to be perfect to be dominant. What I do have to be is confident in my own abilities, have the confidence to think before making a decision, and have the confidence to carry my decisions through. But more so, I feel that having the confidence to admit when I was wrong or need help in something without feeling diminished is what makes me able to dominate.
That's what I was looking for Whippet- thank you. Whether in everyday life or the D/s community, there's always the 'Top Dogs' the unquestioned ones who have to appear perfect at all times.

I can't see that it's necessary, a real man doesn't have to talk tough or act like he's always in control. Those sort have a tendency to fall apart- if you can't bend, you break.

Friends- I am not perfect.

I am human & make mistakes. When I first started my great journey into Domland, I was a lousy dominant. I was lucky to have some good people to talk to, & read a lot of stuff.

To be able to admit that you're not perfect, is a powerful experience. I like to grow a little every day- how would I do that if I was already perfect??

Unfortunately it's a step into the unknown, & rather frightening for some. Have courage brothers- being human isn't so bad!

Great- but not perfect- thats me.