After being trapped in a vanilla marriage for ten years I decided that my next relationship was going to be a kinky one. I purposefully set out to look for one and it was not an easy thing to do. I live in the Bible Belt and trying to find kinky people here is like trying to find the proverbial needle in a haystack. I would not have been able to find my Master if not for the Internet. There are websites that can help you locate groups, munches, clubs and dungeons in your area or in cities close to you. You can also visit forums like this one and place personal ads. You can join in chat rooms with like-minded people.

It will take some time to find a person and build up a relationship. I was online for several months before I met my Master and then chatted with Him for a year before W/we met IRL. It is possible to have a wonderful and kinky relationship with someone. It's not easy to accomplish, but it can be done.