I Agree witj Tojo and alex_bragi 100% here if it not safe sane and consensual. But I am going to add 1 thing a Dom/Mater needs to take care of the mind first of his sub/slave. before for he can take care of the rest of the body. If a Dom/Master can not do this take care of the mind first and blames a sub/slave for him not being able to do what he says he not protecting the sub/slave. He may not be the Dom/Master for you . listen to the little voice inside you that is usally right you always have choices to stay or leave and that up to you.


MrDom