W is for wax

[H Dean]

lol i did make a very lengthy reply quote by quote but in the end didnt bother posting it, if you felt i was attacking you and your girl then i do apologise because i wasnt,and i had acknowledged that some may not like what i was saying

Now you have assumed a personal situation here. I would have made a similar statement to your comment regardless of who was the catalyst.

what i was trying to say (obviously in the wrong way) is as a rule pouring hot wax onto the eyelids is how can i put this nicely...none too sensible!

There is a huge difference between something being "none too sensible" and being "irresponsible". It is far from sensible to jump out of a perfectly good aircraft to parachute to the ground below. It is, however, not irresponsible to do so providing you have attempted to take every precaution possible.

and i will not backtrack on that simply because you dont like what i have to say.

You did not say it was "none too sensible" until your response to me. You said it was "irresponsible". The statement "irresponsible" assumes a lack of care.

I am curious, do you or have you ever involved yourself in anything that is "none too sensible"?

i wasnt being judgemental although im human so i guess like anyone else to a degree i am lol

You were being highly judgemental, so this is a flat off lie. However, I will never condemn someone for being judgemental. If you are not judgemental there is something wrong with you. What I do condemn you for is being assumptive and stating that it was "irresponsible", and basing your judgement on assumption.

...and i couldnt agree more,with the things i do it would be wrong of me to condemn bdsm in any way as you say and im sure not one of the masses lol

Very wise of you.

being rude would be me saying exactly what i do think about it in much stronger words and that would be wrong and impolite.

Making a statement, if true, is not incorrect or wrong, regardless of the strength of your words. The message may not be heard, however. This, nonetheless, has nothing to do with the topic at hand.

i was simply saying what i think and will continue to do so this is a forum and unfortunately from time to time people do disagree with each other and will say what they think

No one is attempting to halt your expression, least of all me. However, responsibility for what you say is yours. You made a statement that was, as I mentioned, assumptive (unknowing of full factual data) and, therefore, irresponsible.

..vey often much more harshly than i do lol,

Harsh works for me so long as the statement has proper thought put into it and is not assumption based, as your statement was.

as you say yourself...dont judge its poor form

No, I did not say that - you assume I said that because you didn't pay attention to my post.

i have my opinion and state it so dont judge me for that

You may have your opinion and I will judge you based on your actions and opinions and anything else you do - just as I expect to be judged on my own.

and arnt you now being hypocritical?

No. I never said anything about not judging. I spoke of assumption.

by implying or calling me dumb...

I neither called nor implied you were dumb. Either this is more assumption on your part or you have difficulty comprehending simple English. I will assume, based on my experiences with you, that it is the former.

it is as you say in your own words a rather personal attack and it's judgemental.

You assume a personal attack because you did not actually read what I had to say.

As I said before; Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.