lol i did make a very lengthy reply quote by quote but in the end didnt bother posting it, if you felt i was attacking you and your girl then i do apologise because i wasnt,and i had acknowledged that some may not like what i was saying
what i was trying to say (obviously in the wrong way) is as a rule pouring hot wax onto the eyelids is how can i put this nicely...none too sensible! and i will not backtrack on that simply because you dont like what i have to say.


i wasnt being judgemental although im human so i guess like anyone else to a degree i am lol...and i couldnt agree more,with the things i do it would be wrong of me to condemn bdsm in any way as you say and im sure not one of the masses lol
being rude would be me saying exactly what i do think about it in much stronger words and that would be wrong and impolite.

i was simply saying what i think and will continue to do so this is a forum and unfortunately from time to time people do disagree with each other and will say what they think ..vey often much more harshly than i do lol,
as you say yourself...dont judge its poor form, i have my opinion and state it so dont judge me for that and arnt you now being hypocritical? by implying or calling me dumb...it is as you say in your own words a rather personal attack and it's judgemental.