Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
huh? you pour it over your eyes?
im surprised you havnt ended up with 3rd degree burns! especially if you are using coloured ones,the chemicals alone can easily burn.
i dont want to sound harsh or offend you but thats just irresponsible and plain dumb!!! (im telling you that for your OWN safety.
im amazed that its even possible to do without causing you any damage your eyelids must have unusually tough thick skin and you must be extremely advanced in your play and very masochistic.
i wouldnt even drip a little on my eyes let alone pour it!
Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

Icey, for all of your experience and for all of your knowledge, it should be noted that you have made a huge jump in assuming irresponsibility because of Orangeblossoms' comment. You have assumed there was no previous testing and that no care was taken.

What would be said about your practices if assumptions were made about them? Imagine if, based on this post, I were to judge you. I would suggest you were irresponsible in making statements based on assumption. I would say you are harshly judgemental. I would also say you were untrustworthy because of how you make your judgements.

Take a bit more care, Icey, in what you say and how you say. Take a bit more care in not allowing your assumptions to overtake you. After all, how many people would suggest that your personal BDSM practices are irresponsible, wrong, a sin or should be illegal? Judge what you know and not what you assume.

edited to add....
i dont want to sound a know-all and NO im not an expert but anyone who's about to try waxing for the first time DONT ATTEMPT IT!
i wasnt going to say this actually but ive changed my mind and yes im probably going to offend everyone and get a bollocking off you all but it sounds more like fantasy than reality to me.
maybe i misread or misunderstood the post
You understood the quote. Candle wax was poured over her closed eyes. Precautions were taken and tests were made. Certain dangers were present and she was aware of them. She enjoyed it - it was fun - she didn't get burns.

Now, my question to you is; Is there anything you practice that contains any sort of danger? If so, you need to stand back and re-assess your commentary. You sound like the masses who would condemn us for our "unusual" lifestyle choices.

Don't assume and don't condemn what is not right for you - it is poor form and hypocritical. Don't suggest my girl is a liar without proof or good reason - it's poor form and a personal attack. Don't call what someone does "dumb" unless you have the facts - it's poor form and makes you appear dumb, judgemental and hypocritical.

Kindest regards,
Dean