Silke,
Thanks. I really wasn't sure if I should ask or not. I really am a novice and didn't want to ruin the scene which is fairly costly. I'll ask the mistress when I call her tomorrow ahead of the session for directions to the place. It is about 1 1/2 drive so if I'm going to ask I may as well do it before I make the journey. I did make a post in another thread about one of my fetishes and that is I love to wear a CB. I got permission from the mistress that books the appointments to wear it to the session. That may give me a little protection.
I just hope I hope I don't chicken out but I don't think I will. I'll report back with how it went after I get back tomorrow.