C Is For Creeds

[crazy_grrluk]

well everywhere one looks the submissive is always refered to as a female and the dominant male... shrugs.

the basic outline of the creeds is just that... a guide line. Most lifestylers have their own wishes... their own set of rules.

cg

[gloombunny]

well everywhere one looks the submissive is always refered to as a female and the dominant male... shrugs.

You aren't looking in very many places, then.

Even if that were the case, that doesn't imply it's a desirable state of affairs.

[crazy_grrluk]

You aren't looking in very many places, then.

Well maybe everything is different in the "USA" then to the rest of the world eh

[Hime]

You aren't looking in very many places, then.

Even if that were the case, that doesn't imply it's a desirable state of affairs.

Exactly. The entire world assumes that men are dominant over women unless otherwise noted -- that doesn't mean it's okay.

[Alex Bragi]

Exactly. The entire world assumes that men are dominant over women unless otherwise noted -- that doesn't mean it's okay.

Yes, it's very slowly changing, but it's still a fact isn't it? And, I agree it's not ok. I suppose it dates back to when physical strength actually did make men the dominant humans. When men were the hunters and women did the gathering.

[Tojo]

Well I thought it was lovely- thanks for that, crazy_grrluk. You have good taste in sisters too, I might add.

I particularly liked the bit 'He is secure enough to laugh at himself and
the absurdities of life.'

As far as the Male Dom female sub thing goes, just because it's written like that doesn't mean it's the only way.

Personally, I could not be bothered writing 'Dom/me he/she his/her' etc etc, every time I make a post or whatever. There's just as many Dommes as Doms around really- & people seem to just put what's right for them.