Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
Deletion of messages may well be a moderator privelege. You soft delete it, which tags it for the mods to look at, giving a reason why you want to delete it and they delete it for you. oft delete does make it disappear to anyone but the mods as soon as you click it, though, so it is still more or less deleted.

Its possible this is a default setting of the board that the mods have not bothered to change - in case you were wondering why the mods may want to see what you are deleting

First and foremost, may I say that yours is one of the sluttiest male avatars I've seen around here, probably only rivalled by Tufty's--and I love it! *g*

Regarding messages being deleted by moderators, well it does serve a purpose for them to be viewed. If there's one offender offending a whole lot of other members here, then we need to be aware of it.