[QUOTE=fantassy]
Quote Originally Posted by Aesop
I believe in that myself. Well...mostly anyway. After all I don't want my sub taking the whip to me. /QUOTE]


Actually, I thought about that when I was typing, but I decided the rule still works because you wouldn't take the whip to your sub if she didn't want you to. (or at least so I assume) Thus you only have to look at it at a higher level of abstraction. You want your sub to do things to you which you enjoy; therefore you do things to your sub which your sub enjoys.

fantassy
Lol. Yes I agree. I was being my foolish ol' self.