However, the question was posed as "in your fantasies..."
Of course, one knows in real life, that the "rape play" is just that, play. They know that they can use their safe word if the shit hits the fan. It's the fantasy that's so much fun. The mind set.
Personally, I like a bit of reluctance in my fantasies, or unwilling at first, but then comes around. A la Rose Takes a Day Off.
God, I gotta write more on that story. I kinda miss little Rosie.