Greetings.
lets start with what I like to be called. well dont call me anything ( call me ???? what you think i am a pet???). its Address me as Ma'am or Kate. never ever call me a Domme. look at the word because 1.. I am not a man/Dom 2..its not about ME its about a way of life with others..
If any slave or sub said >you mother fucker!" or "I fucking hate you, you asshole!" or "son of a bitch!" <<< to me then their arse would be so sore they would wish the earth would open up and swallow them.. and that is either if in jest /play or any other manner.
My slaves Address me as Ma'am no matter where we are. its a way of life for us Not a life style.
in saying that each to their own. however come to my place and see how far you get in the door if you dont Address me correctly...(like the sign on my house "Beware of the Gorean)