alittlebee.....
I am glad you have found us...There is a lot here to learn from. If you have questoins ask and I know you will find many who will be happy to help you out. We also have a personal section if you want to explore with a dom...of course you would have to put in a personal yourself. As for starting out it would be difficult if the person you are with isn't interested but just for starts you really need to talk to your bf about your desires. Sometimes doing this is completely embarrassing but it can be worth it.
Again alittlebee welcome to the forums
subwfie