I'm not 100% sure I would call myself a switch but I guess this comes closer than either of the other two categories. I've been interested in BDSM for a long time now and I'm a long time reader of the library. I'm an avid roleplayer and I can play both roles, although I prefer to play the submissive (although many of my roleplays are non-cons and thus the characters can't really be called BDSM submissives in the true sense). I'm also an avid consumer of BDSM literature. In real life, I have experienced BDSM as both a domme and a sub, In both cases, I have a bit of a bad habit of having my own urges switch in the middle of things which is never good, especially when I try not to show it. I have never been in a 24/7 D/s relationship in either role and, while I respect those who find fulfillment in that kind of relationship, I have honestly never felt a need or desire for one for me personally. I am also comfortable in vanilla relationships, sometimes with a little mild kink to spice things up. In addition to BDSM, I have something of a clothes fetish, especially regarding sneakers, socks and panties. I'm currently single. I consider myself a feminist but I understand it to mean that liberated women (and men) are also at liberty to submit, rather out of a submissive sexuality, a personal religious belief or whatever else, as long as its a genuinely free decision. So that's me in a nutshell. Hi.