Online relating is hard, but there are tons of things you can do <smiles>. Clothspins are good, and the other ideas shared so far I think. You can also put him to task while you are online with him, enlist another Top or Mistress to play him while you are online, put him on JMeeting for everyone to see and comment on him while you have him perform. You could have him just sit and wait while you think of what you want to do next I do find that when playing with others the suspense of annticipation and the tension accompanying that can be quite erotic on both ends. HotWax is fun too.

Respectfully, SidheWolf