Great thread, wonderful advices Ruby and TG - I definitely believe that everything is fair game in love and war, and unfortunately often after the love has ended the war begins.

In “normal” situations, breaks happen and people part, in abnormal - the real terror just starts!

My advice for those in these extreme situations are definitely to plan, get to your local women shelter group they will be able to help. You might need to relocate! Be prepared to do that. Follow their instructions to the teeth!

I had a friend in abusive relationship. She had 2 small children and no income and no means to provide for them, no skill. She disappeared. I heard she is doing really well for herself and kids and I pray she is good. I still see her husband who is trying to find her.
She could not let anyone know what she is planning! Not give new address or contact number! She had to start fresh! It is not easy - but it might be the only thing that is left.

Always remember it is you or your stalker! And you have no option but to win!

Good luck to all of you!