tomofsweden said - I think chances are that MrW has had a little poke of his own at one time in his life, (whether he remembers it or not) and he didn't like it.
Mr W has done no such thing and believe me he would remember!
So how do you know you won't like it? This is a bit like people who've been vegetarians all their lives saying that they don't like the taste of beef. Anyhoo, sex is complicated, and especially in this family of BDSM.