K and Me...

[Alaric's pet]

Then, hopefully, I can either get stationed near Riverside and search when I'm off duty, or take my first 30 days of leave there. One way or the other... I do agree that I'll have to find her in person... but, one day at a time...

Sorry Mark, but this sounds a little stalker-ish. After reading this post, I understand the grief you are feeling and the anger that something you valued was taken away. But, I think your ideas of mailing a letter to the school and moving to her town to "find her in person" could get you in a wee bit of trouble. Besides, like Wontworry said, you can't be sure that everything she said was true. (You already admitted that she misrepresented her relationship with you to her friends)

telling them she was submissive, and the choker was a sign of her submission, even if, in all actuality, it meant nothing to her or me

Honestly, I would be suprised if she really is 18. If she's not, then you'd be in a whole different kind of trouble. Doesn't seem worth it to me....especially as it was only 2 weeks on chat/email.

Albear said it best

I think the best thing to do is move on

Best of luck to you