While I am fairly certain I could throw a letter in an envelope and address it through the school, I've had to take the time to really think it over. But I don't want to take the risk of her getting in more trouble, nor do I want to take a chance on somebody looking at what should be privileged communication. Ultimately, I've decided to gain what experience I can, until I touch base with K again.
It really wouldn't bother me if she left on her own. I'm a firm believer of live and let live. What really gets me to no end is the teacher sharing this with her parents (after all, she is 18), and further, her parents reaction in general. Oh, well, guess I'll have to spend some time in Cali tracking her down... How many families could possibly have 6 kids, all names starting with 'K', two of which are twins? I just don't believe in making somebody else's decisions for them. And as one of my friends said, cutting me out of her life isn't going to stop her from becoming the little subbie she is deep inside.

...My dad doesn’t want us to chat anymore. He is totally erasing my screen name from the computer. I am so sorry I didn’t give you my address or phone number today. I have been much too indoctrinated by my dad to ever give it out. I would tell you now, but I was only allowed to write to you on the condition that he censors the letter before I send it. He took your address from my desk in my room before I could memorize much of it.
Hopefully, the next time we get together we will both be in a position to be in control of our own destiny. I will do my best to make that happen somehow.