Black people (women especially) cant openly be slaves/subs or even dommes. It's not "right" in our community. We WERE slaves, and our community doesnt understand willingly being beaten and sexually tortured. For us, its something freaky white people do. Im not trying to be offensive but this is how the majority of the black population thinks.

Imagine how hard it was for me to be a r/t 24/7 slave to my master...walking around in a collar and being made to sit at his feet whenever the mood struck him. And yes he was black also.

Men get called "domeneering" (and in this case they would be right) but theres a pall cast over it since black women "aint taking no man hitting her and treating her like sh*t". you cant begin to imagine how many discussions and argumants i have had to have over my choice of lifestyle.

So i say this, if u watch carefully, you will find black people in the life, but it wont be obvious signs, watch how she walks next to him, or how she holds his hand, how she ever so slightly bows whenever he tells her to do something.

its beautiful.