Distance Play time. :)

[Gr1m]

I would eliminate auto-erotic asphyxiation completely. Breath play is a fine activity, it's just not something to do alone. There are very few references for this, but it is a problem to be aware of.
http://en.wikipedia. org/wiki/Autoerotic_fatalities


Other than that, have you read the beginners thread?

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529

Oh, it isn't to the point where she isn't breathing. Typically a slight pressure on the neck, and if its anymore I'm usually watching her on web cam.

Aye, I'll read the thread. Thanks