Quote Originally Posted by whippedcream
I was approached by a number of dirty old men who were a bit pushy in asking to scene with me. Most of them were just icky, but one guy seemed okay and I actually thought about it.

My question is, for those of you who are experienced at that sort of thing, what are your feelings on scening with people you've just met?
I think you have good instincts, and you should always trust your instincts.

One of the objects of having an event at a club is for people to meet each other, but obviously a lot of those guys were too old for you, and made a bad impression. Of course it is safer to scene with someone you already know, but it might also be rather exciting to scene with somebody whose expertise has just been demonstrated in a scene with somebody else. The younger guys you came with might learn something from somebody older and more experienced, but older people are not necessarily more skilful or talented. You can always learn by watching other people scene together.

There are many risks associated with having a scene with a stranger. Will your limits be respected, especially when it comes to sex if your freedom is restricted during the scene? Implements used for punishment as well as pleasure can transmit STDs, but of course you can bring your own. There may be house rules regarding hygiene, but they may be disregarded. This can also happen when you scene with friends using house equipment.

You are right to point out that a stranger will not understand you as well as a friend, but what strangers bring to the party might be a lot of knowledge and experience with other women. You might discover unsuspected depths to yourself by being treated as a stranger with all the right working parts.

In the end, if you don't feel comfortable, don't do it.