You're more likely to get a good answer if you post your questions here. No matter the level of experience of the master, it doesn't mean they will interpret the question correctly. You're anonymous here anyway, so you've got nothing to lose.

Go for it. I promise I'll do my best to give you as good an answer as I can. But the first thing I learned in the BDSM scene is that the morals of the vanilla scene aren't so much to guide us but as an instrument to judge others. A tool in order for some people to elevate themselves. The only rule is not to hurt others. But I'm guessing that's what your questions are regarding?