Thanks everyone for the help. I guess I was more of looking for something for her to fill out saying how willing she was to particpate in various kinds of play.

The "problem" is that she wants to be kidnapped for her birthday, and I have no idea what she considers to happen during a kidnapping. Asking her that hasn't been too productive and I had barely recalled seeing a really really long list of activites with a rating scale but I can't seem to find it again. Sort of hoping that it would have so many activities even if she only said 'yes' to a couple it would still be a surprise excatlly to what happens.