Quote Originally Posted by Rhabbi View Post
I think the best book for you to look at is The Loving Dom. This is a wonderful book written from the standpoint of a Dom who had to adapt himself to the needs of his sub, and I think it will help you to understand the mind set of a Dom and why he does this.
I'm going to check that out. I dont know if I personally care about dominating someone, I've never really had preferences with sex, I like to conform to whatever my lover needs. I'm an actor, I think I do that by nature.

Essentially I just want to see her happy, so does that translate into wanting to see her dominated?