Ok, finally made it back here. I've been thinking about this quite a bit.

For me, there is erotic pain and non-erotic pain. Like when my Devil grabs the back of my neck and squeezes really hard if...ha!...when I get sarcastic with him, that's erotic pain for me. And so is a smack on my ass. Or a forceful kiss while his hand grips my face. I could go on and on.

In the past, if we were kidding around, he was likely to give me one of those little punches to the arm. Not a lot of pain involved in that, but I hated it!! It just made me feel awful and icky and ~shudders~. I finally got my feelings on that across to him and he stopped doing it. He thought it was a cute thing to do, 'cause he liked it when I would do something similar to him. Now he can smack my face and I turn into a pool of liquid lust, but that light tap on the arm hurt me in ways I couldn't handle. Why that is, not so sure.

Interesting indeed! Thanks again for asking it. I've loved reading the responses.

tessa