I have to agree with lucy on most parts.

As someone who has lost her job and well, my career so far, i can only offer you my 2 cents as the unemployed.
Being upbeat should really help, but sometimes it's good to just say that things will be okay, offer reassurance, understanding. don't go overboard with that, it might make it seem like his feelings are unjustified (?)

but, from what i've seen from you so far, PB, you already do so

i hope that makes sense...sometimes the english eludes me.

i wish you both strength and a happy future.
don't forget to take care of your own needs, too...it's so easy to forget that sometimes.