hmm....Maybe not so much insecurity as just plain projection onto my slave. It's more like, I would never put up with being treated the way I treat my slave be, let's say my boss or a girlfriend. More like, "How can she put up with all my bullshit"?
And besides most women wouldn't put up with having a Master and most of my friends are non-BDSM people. Their view of the world off-course sneaks it's way into mine. Each time I hear my friends whining about problems with their girlfriends, I'm usually thinking, "you really love it don't you, you suby slut" or "but just fucking break up then and get a woman who likes to obey you".
Having fears of being abandoned by my slave, I only think is human. If we love we can also lose what we love.
Yesterday I atended a salsa course with my slave and I assaulted her lip with my nose. ha ha ha. How's that for un-perfection? My defence is that it was my first time ever dancing salsa. But I didn't step on anybodies toes!!!