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mental health :
* Do you support your Dom/Sub before and after sessions ?
* Do you continue that support from one time to the next ?
* Do you provide avenues for you partner in fun to learn and grow with you?

Physical health:
* Do you ensure that your BDSM accessories are all clean and prepared for the next use? That is a big one .. especially if there is more than one who plays.
* Do you try to keep abreast of your Dom/sub 's physical health with in reasonableness?
* Do you try to enhance there wellbeing at all? this increases your own at the same times especially if you are life partners.


Emotional ..
During Aftercare and beyond.. do you do all that you can do?
( yes, I adapted it. )


Just things to think on for others to possibly add to the thread.