This is really a very interesting subject, for me. Mainly, because I have some pretty extreme fantasies myself. Not of doing things to others but of things being done to me. I used to think, because I would get more aroused by darker more taboo fantasies than by the usual romantic ones, I was a sick person. I used to even cry about it. Because, I would write stories about women being raised as pets that lived solely for the pleasure of males and I thought that meant I was a bad person. Now that I am older (and hopefully wiser) I know that it doesn't. I think of it like this, just because you dream about being killing, just because you write about killing, just because you read about killing... it doesn't make you a killer. I think, people really need to think about that when they start judging people for their sexual fantasies. People write about and read about and even watch murders on tv and movies ALL the time. Murder IS illegal AND immoral. But, we still get a thrill for it, don't we? And NO ONE ever tries to keep us from experiencing it through media. And, we don't start fearing the guy sitting next to us watching the bloody murders and we aren't looking over our shoulder worrying about being arrested for watching a movie with murder. We aren't hiding our books when we are reading about murder for fear that people are going to think we are going to go out and murder someone because we are reading the book. Yet, we hide our pornography under the bed??? We even can say when we are really mad "I just want to kill her/him" and nobody blinks an eye. But, if it has to do with anything sexual, we freak out. It AMAZES me. It truly amazes me.