fetish101 said:
"all I was saying was that the demand for pictures of larger women in bdsm scenes is much smaller than the demand for pictures of more slimmer and toned girls in bdsm scenes. My proof is the favorite picture thread"

The slim women that predominate the favorite picture thread probably has a lot to do with what is available on the web. The models on the web are chosen for their "ideal" look rather than their interest in BDSM. I find the real women and men in the personal photography thread who are not so perfect to be much more erotic.

As far as the flexibility is concerned, I'm relatively small, but I'll be damned if I can get in some of those positions I see in those pictures. Even when I was 20, I don't think I could have bent that way without tearing a few ligaments. I don't think size is the only factor here.