You are right, jaeangel, that is not a master. That is a sadistic asshole.

Strike one: He did not respect a hard limit.
Strike two: He was drunk.
Strike three: He left you unattended in bondage.

He does not deserve tou ever touch another woman in his life. Idiots like that totally discredit this lifestyle and, worse, are a real danger to the unlucky ones who happen to be around them. I hope you are OK and taking care of yourself.