What about size?

[SirRetribution]

It is what it is. Some men love bbw's. I know some doms that would have nothing else. I know other doms that like their women thin like a tooth pick, and others in between. It how you see yourself not how others see you.

[erisv]

scarletakb, like you i've struggled with my weight (still am actually) and something that i don't think anyone's done more then glance over is that you may simply not be built to be skinny. i don't know your body type hun (pardon the informality but i call everyone hun) but i know in my own case that i have broad shoulders, wide hips, an ample chest and a round butt...i will never ever be a size 2, i do not have the bone structure for it. from what you've said you are making great strides in dealing with your weight and it sounds like it will not be a health issue for you. i would say that if you feel better, can do the things you want to do and are not having health issues from your weight then to hell with what anyone else thinks of your body!

this sounds rather trite i know and is much easier said then accepted in ones own mind but there is something really liberating when you can look in a mirror and love every litte ounce of curvy flesh looking back at you without the backdrop of anyone else's approval drifting through your mind.

as for your worries about your Dom having slim pickings let me tell you hun, there are a lot of women (and girls for that matter) who would be discrete and probably more readily available since many wouldn't be married themselves and thus there would be less of a problem on their ends...that said this meand that he wants YOU darling girl. all those good things you pointed out about yourself obviously trip his sensors and i'd be willing to bet that your voloptuous figure does too!

[scarletakb]

I'm actually, kind of a big girl.. pretty big boned, etc. When I was in my very early 20's I competed in pageants... I was in very nice shape... weighed about 130 pounds, and was a size 12. (I'm 5' )... So.. I'm broad shouldered, broad hipped.. big boned all around, but, I had a pretty nice figure.

Just to toot my own horn.. I just lost another 7 pounds. I'm seeing my lover tomorrow for the first time in 2 months, and he will have a hard time recognizing me... I'm looking pretty decent.

I'd like to lose another 65 pounds.. but, frankly, it's probably more realistic for me to lose another 20 or 30... Everyone I know has been commenting about how incredibly skinny I'm getting.. so.. maybe I'm just meant to be a bigger size...