Thank you all. Sweet19, it's called a lifestyle, but it doesn't have to a 24/7 lifestyle. I think most people here enjoy it the same way you do, as would I probably. What they mean by wannabee is someone that just comes in here for the fun, quick sex, etc. But not really into it.

And red, I don't want to make much of it really. It wasn't nice at that moment, but I've had a good talk to person in question. And also later on. Would rather call it a misjudgement and it was brought a bit unfriendly. But that doesn't mean I don't get along. Everyone makes mistakes. Apologies where made and glady accepted. I'm not a hating person, at least not easely so...

Anyway I'm enjoying my stay here, and an incident like this couldn't stop me from visiting. On the contrary, it got me thinking, and in doing so I gues I learnt something about myself (partly known already) and set me to writing this intro.

PS: Sweet19, you have a nice intro as well. En wees gegroet.