Thanks for the input everyone. A lot of what everyone has said really does apply to me. I am not ruling out anyone, even someone who has no interest in BDSM. If I am attracted to someone and like them as a person I won't just push them to one side saying not a submissive, so no good to me.

I was just wondering if others out there had gone through the same process and eventually found the submissive that really suited them.

Maybe I am after too much, who isn't? But we can always still have our ideal partner somewhere to aspire for. It just seems that the odds become a little more stacked against someone with more specific lifestyle choices.

Maybe I should not use the word true. I really have no idea to explain what I mean though. How about lifestyle submissive, 24/7 submissive? Really just meaning someone who is submissive, not just playing submissive, trying out some roleplay to have some fun. Should I simply say submissive and leave it at that?

The search continues...